Tanner discovers she was put up for adoption after her mother had an affair and mistakenly assumed Tanner was fathered by her lover instead of her husband. She died before learning the truth.
Tuesday, April 08, 2025
Tanner Adell Shares Heartbreaking Adoption Story
Tanner discovers she was put up for adoption after her mother had an affair and mistakenly assumed Tanner was fathered by her lover instead of her husband. She died before learning the truth.
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Beautiful song. Wishing her emotional healing and strength
Her mama was messy af. Smh just trifling!
and the bio dad / husband is just as bad because he let her put the baby up for adoption without DNA testing her first.
She's got problems (biracial ones included). She's plenty disrespectful to her adoptive parents who gave her a loving home, when her biological parents treated her poorly. This woman has a whole family, and all she can focus on is her adoption issues. She feels like she missed out on something with her biological mother. People who behave this way need help. They never embrace what they have in front of them because they're so focused on what they think they've lost. She's chasing a ghost. Her song is disrespectful. She says that she doesn't have a mother in her song! Do you guys remember the days when adoptive children were respectful and happy to be in a loving home? Things have changed. All they do is complain and whine. They throw their adoptive parents under the bus. They even have support groups for adopted children and adults. Hey....where's the support group for people who don't know who their father is? For people who's parent(s) walked out on them? Tell me, what makes her case so special that she felt the need to overshare all of that. If you are tired of people dumping their trauma online, please reply. I feel like I'm in the twilight zone.
@5:50PM I have no idea who this child is so I don't know her whole story and I didn't watch any of her IG stories. But I do agree that she's being a little disrespectful if she was raised by loving (keyword!) adoptive parents and doesn't acknowledge all they did for her. I can also understand why she's longing for her bio parents though because not having the love of a mother who birthed you leaves an emptiness that no substitute parent can ever fill. I just watched Con Mum on Netflix about this dude who reunited with his mother after 45 years and man, let me tell you. There's a whole lot of jacked up people out there and women who intentionally abandon their kids are a different type of trash.
I also agree some of these people rely entirely too much on SM for everything. It's really a kind of sickness and very attention seeking. She can afford therapy but maybe validation from strangers somehow makes it easier? Plus, she's trying to sell records so I guess this could be a way for her to be more relatable to her fans. I don't know. Either way, SM has really brought out the worst in a lot of people but it also shows us who people really are.
@3:13 I think the bio dad didn't know until much later. I think he traveled a lot which gave the mom to have a full-blown affair unnoticed.
Sometimes when you’re connected to your biological family, you appreciate the family that raised you. Too many stories to tell.
Adopted children should be allowed to express their feelings and speak about them just like everyone else.
Plenty of people resent their parents and that includes adoptees
Apparently yearning for a connection with your biological family does not disappear just because you were purchased by someone else.
Who knew adoptees were autonomous and subject to feelings other than gratitude towards their new owners?
Maybe Tanner didn't read the fine print in the agreement to be to raised by strangers.
@ 5:50
Standing Ovation!
I had a conversation about how the internet has turned the world into a bunch of butt hurt caught up in their supposed feelings cry babies.
The world’s emotional health has gone back to infancy. They act like just waking up and existing is a major chore.
Pre-internet we all had to figure it out and if we were as emotionally unstable as the internet babies are now, we would have been put in a mental health facility. It has become an epidemic now for people to be an emotional wreck on a daily basis and need the validation of others to exist and make it through the day.
Adoption ~ as you said, she HAS a mother! Why fantasize about a bio mom that thought of her as a “mistake”? Are you kidding me? She bites the hand that raised her and gave her the opportunity to be where she is today.
The “poor me” generation.
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