Rachel Lindsay's Estranged Husband Recalls Sleeping in Separate Beds

This week The Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay's estranged husband, Bryan Abasolo, talked publicly about the strain Rachel's infertility put on their marriage [click here if you missed that]. 

It probably didn't help that they were also sleeping in separate beds...

From Us Magazine

In a candid new interview, Bryan Abasolo details living a separate life from Rachel Lindsay before their divorce.

Abasolo, 44, told divorce coach Rene Garcia that there was a pattern of “unhealthy communication” between himself and Lindsay, 39.

"We didn’t spend enough time with each other,” Absolo said in a YouTube video, released on Saturday, July 20. “I mean, in my estimation, we saw what the other person was doing in the relationship, mainly on Instagram, although we lived in the same house.”

In the 17-minute-long video, Abasolo discussed how he reached out to Garcia in September 2023 for relationship advice — months before filing for divorce. But at that point, he and Lindsay were already sleeping in separate rooms.

"I was thinking about divorce because I had already asked for a separation a few months back. I was sleeping in a different bedroom. We were already going to marriage counseling,” Abasolo recalled, offering a shout out to their “absolutely phenomenal” therapist.

While couples therapy initially “seemed to be working” for Abasolo and Lindasy, there was a major shift in their relationship.

"As time went on, things just went right back to the way they were,” Abasolo said, explaining how he decided to see a divorce coach. “I needed someone who had absolutely no loyalties to either of us or any type of incentive in the outcome. I needed someone to help me process my feelings, and I needed someone to honestly give me a reality check on what was to come if I decided to move forward in this.”