Last week Ime Udoka was hired as the head coach of the Houston Rockets after being fired as head coach of the Boston Celtics after having an affair with a married subordinate [click
here if you missed that].
Ime's ex, Nia Long, seemingly responds to Ime saying the incident has been settled....
20 comments:
Who cares, the man wasn't married. Stop expecting non husband's to be act like husbands. Those grown folks were together for years unwed and in different states from what I heard. Listen to me and know one thing, men rush to marry the woman they want and it doesn't take long. I've been married 20 years and only knew my husband 3 months, and we cohabitated 1 month because I moved to his state where I had no family. When a man wants more time its because he wants his freedom. She knew this too and just enjoyed the sympathy.
Please stop acting like everyone has your value system. That’s ignorant. There are people who do not believe in marriage, but believe in monogamous relationships. Also be careful about bragging about your marriage, a lot of these married men have side pieces, while their delusional wives run around ranting about their huuuusbands. In fact it has been my experience happily married women don’t judge unmarried womens choice in relationships. You sound pretentious, judgmental, and a little unhappy. U have to put down others relationship to feel good about your self.
@9:05 Say that sh*t!!! married men are the main n66as seeking outside pleasures...Yes, your nerdy azz husband be outside with the sh*ts. Be at work with the sh*ts. Be at church with the sh*ts. Be at the gym with the sh*ts......and when i say they give zero fuccs in the moment.
Disclosure: Not All but babee at least 90%
@ 9:05 Oh boy Jezebel is maaad at the truth. A post that wasn't about you cut you that deep? Messed around and exposed yourself. That truth hurt your soul so bad it's not even funny. Well you have a warped idea about married men because you apparently let them use you as a snot rag and send you own. So it's not my values that bother you, it's your lack of values that have warped your perspective. The Creator said marriage is holy and the bed undefiled and so who am I going to believe the Creator or a woman who is obviously hurting to the point she took a post to heart. I told you how a man thinks and you got offended and that's why you are in that condition. You are one of those whose momma couldn't tell them nothing. Well keep on thinking there are different value systems because life will show you otherwise. You are the type who has all of the answers but none of them have profited you. Go ask your father if what I said is true. Men don't think like women, they marry who they love very quickly.
@ 9:35, You lost me at, "married men are the main n!gg@s." Is that how you hold conversations? Remember that being a lady never goes out of style. Your language is very unbecoming. A big cursing man will think he's laying with himself getting in the bed with you. No ma'am. That's not lady like.
At the end of the day marriage with the right person is a blessing. If the guy was even at retirement age; Nia couldn’t get anything…,he’s still young…I said that to say, if they were in a union she couldn’t get pension payments or retirements..,no benefits….she’s an up in age working actress who will only get child support. Y’all can keep doing the “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it game” all you want….a complete time water…Nia just walks away as a mad baby mother who is empty handed.
Y’all acting like there is a plethora of divorced black women or widowed black women that ended up with the bag. Many married black women make more than their husbands. Some black women are so male identified it is pathetic. Just be happy in your marriage, if you are in fact happy, and leave other people alone to live their lives. Most single people I know are happier than married people. I left both my ex husbands and don’t regret it. I know the truth about marriage. It is not for everyone and for a lot of women it is a raw deal. Live your life and let others live there’s.
* Let others live theirs.
Who's the verbal police in these comments. Judemenatal azz tf outta here & go to church if you're looking for wholesome content
Here for the cooments
TELL IT @9:05AM!!!! I have a married guy friend who I've known for almost 27 years. We met when I was in my early 20s and he was 15 years my senior, although he didn't look it. He never, ever mentioned a wife or wore a ring when he was around me so I didn't even know he was married until about year 10 into our friendship when he said 'my wife' in a conversation. Since we were strictly platonic I wasn't tripping but why wouldn't he have shared that when we met? He had two kids and he didn't mind sharing that.
So as of today he's been married for like 38 years but when we met you couldn't tell me he wasn't single. We would often hang out and do happy hour, go to bars or local shows, do lunch, he'd come by my place to chill, etc. Then about 7 years ago he asked me to move to another country with him when he retired. I'm thinking did he get a divorce? Nope. Still married. So by that point I'm like this dude is trying to make me a permanent side piece.
Forward to today, we're still cool and he moved out of state but him and the wife are still married. But that doesn't keep him from still coming at me because just a few weeks ago I had to decline his offer to come spend the night with me for my birthday when he comes into town for a family event.
These married men are out here doing all kinds of dastardly deeds behind their wives backs and he's not the only one. I have many other stories of married guys who creep. But keep being naive, ignorant and judgemental 8:11 AM. Your husband might be out there grooming his next side piece too.
And for the record 8:11AM, you said your huuuuuzzzband locked you down early and that's probably for good reason. See, I've found that a lot of these men marry women quickly so that she gets comfortable and complacent. You see sometimes when a woman gets married young and doesn't know what else is out there, she's afraid to leave and these men are banking on that. And the woman may also think it's better to stay in or work on a bad marriage than to be single. So yeah, keep thinking a quick marriage equals faithfulness. I even know a married man who works from home and isn't in these streets so to speak, but still finds to cheat on his wife. You don't have a lock on anybody 24-7 and men always find a way to get what they want. Sex don't take that long you know.
Julia
I’m here for 9:05 and 9:35 am! Tell a bih how it is.
Nah! I agree with 11:01.
Some people are too invested and get riled up over someone else’s take on their relationship. So what she wasn’t married to him. Her not being married to him doesn’t negate her feelings.
And to the grammar faux pas. I too don’t like my comments to have errors. No one is trying to be lumped in with today’s generation of degenerates. People brag about having degrees and can’t spell worth a lick.
@9:05 CHURCH!!
Don't trip Nia, I’d still smash. But ultimately I would cheat on you also. So you should have kept him because at least you guys have children. Happy hunting for your next cheater.
8:11
Did you put that Whip appeal on him early and got him hooked on the puss? LOLOL
Every relationship is not the same. Be happy if you have a good one. Let the rest alone.
Yoooo…. He won!!!! Now he can get all the hxes!!! He in a big city with fresh talent. All the women gonna throw pupu now! Don’t nobody want Nia Long dried up pupu! She is in Vivica Fox territory!!! I bet they broke up because she used
The situation as leverage to get him to finally marry her and he refused. Atleast I hoped they were smart enough to do both!
New P√$$¥ is undefeated!
Side pieces are the lubrication for dry ass marriages.
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