Tuesday, April 18, 2023

Marques Houston Says Women His Age Come with Too Much Baggage


Over the past month Marques Houston has been publicly defending his marriage to a women who is 19 years his junior [click here if you missed that]. 

In a new interview Marques shares his belief that women his age come with too much baggage and women with children are a red flag...

Actor and R&B singer Marques Houston made headlines in 2020 when at age 38 he was engaged to a 19-year-old, and publicly defended online criticism of their age gap.
She’s now 22, while he’s 41, and they welcomed their first child in 2021.
Houston now tells Page Six that women his own age came with too much “baggage.”
“A red flag to me [was] always with a woman that had a kid,” he said. “Nothing against single women, but single mothers with children are a red flag for me.”
“I tip my hat and respect women that are raising children on their own,” he told us. “But when I grew up, I never really wanted to have kids.”
He elaborated, “I would talk to my dad a lot, and he would always tell me to have your own kids because you never know what the baby daddy‘s are about. So if you’re gonna have kids, make sure it is with a woman that never had kids. So that was always my red flag… and a woman with an attitude. I don’t like women with funky attitudes.”
“I’m 41, she is 22. I could’ve married a 44-year-old woman, and it could’ve been disastrous,” the singer said.
“Women that are my age… they kind of have a different outlook on life. Like a lot of women my age are very independent. They are very like, ‘I don’t need a man to do this for me ’cause I can do it for myself.’ I come from a generation that I love to provide for my wife.”
He added of finding the right woman, “There’s a lot of women my age I’ve dated, they may have baggage. They may have kids, they may not. There’s so many different women I’ve been with throughout my life, and it just so happens to be that this one [Miya] caught my heart. Everything that I prayed for — and everything that I wanted in a woman — she came with. Although she was young, I’m young in spirit.”

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

The woman that have baggage had a man like you. Your wife will divorce you when she grows up and sees how manipulative you are. Then she will have children and the baggage from your simple a$$.

Unknown said...

Ok, he's an idiot, too... Black women can't win. First, we're too independent, now, we're not dependent enough? Give me a fcking break! I know plenty of women between 32-40, who would love a man like Marques, and they don't have kids, and they would love to be pampered and provided for. But black men counsel black boys to stay away from black women; or, they'll describe attributes that are primarily ascribed to black women, by saying "stay away from single mothers", "stay away from women who are too independent", "stay away from women who wear fake hair"; black men are the greatest barriers for black relationships because they are themselves are chocolate covered yt men who hate black women. Marques knows dayum well he could've found those same attributes in a woman 30 years old, but he purposely chose a barely legal teen because he knew it would be easier to manipulate a young girl with zero life experiences, as opposed to a woman who had fully lived her life and could add on to his. Black men like him are intimidated by black women who are smart, successful, and accomplished - not because "they don't need a man", but because they are harder to manipulate.

Ms. Transformation said...

@10:26am BIG FACTS

Anonymous said...

What's gonna happen as he ages and she reaches her prime and the peen no longer works welp lol

Anonymous said...

Yes @ 10:26am.

Anonymous said...

I suspect he wants a “daddy-baby girl” relationship. If thats what he likes then it’s cool with me. But he needs to find a woman who understands this and is open to it. His wife may be open to that but he doesn’t sound like the kind of guy who knows who how to start or have the that conversation. Good luck to both of them.

And there are plenty of women his age who are looking for the kind of relationship he wants. I think his problem with women his age (40 ish) is his way of trying to justify wanting to have a woman half his age. He should get into therapy and work this out.

Anonymous said...

Here goes rhymes with snitch posting these harmful articles that down Black women. Ok you did your part for white supremacy. Do you want a cookie? We have to question why he she whatever the hell it is goes out of it’s way to post this negative garbage? Like we care about those past has beens from 20 years ago.

Anonymous said...

I agree with your post 10:26.

Anonymous said...

Pedophiles don't die, they groom much younger women for marriage. This pervert groomed his child bride at 15 years old. He is speaking the same manosphere nonsense as the other incles who love to talk about a woman's body count because they have no real skills to get a woman. I wish women would recognize these fools for who they are. Trash.

Anonymous said...

@10:24am You're absolutely right. He wants someone that he can easily manipulate while men like him are the main reasons women have baggage. Spoken like a true predator. What a SIMP.

Anonymous said...

Yes that lil sucker bi n*ggas put them thru. Admit it young women see money and some fame and they will take the tiny peen til they get on. Who is he fooling.

Anonymous said...

As if men don't. At least a good percentage of women esp at middle age have the emotional iq to work thru their issues, traumas, understand their triggers etc. Can't say the same for males, yet I would never even consider a 19/20 old dude.

Anonymous said...

The fact is all older people come with baggage. Men and Women. The Q? Is how many bags do you have and how heavy are the bags?

Anonymous said...

He has a sheisty/feisty baggage.

Anonymous said...

Keep talking Marques. Keep talking cuz you is painting a picture👀
(grammar's intentional English police😭)

Anonymous said...

He doesn't realize how he is making his self-look. Keep on talking MH. The world is gagging at your comments and know you're a fool.

Anonymous said...

somebody on facebook said he needs to be quiet and raise his wife

Anonymous said...

He and Chris Stokes will have their time. Someone is investigating them unbeknownst to them.

J.Swindell said...

First the "chevelry" dude on LSA, now this kneegrow. They're trying to come for Black women but with a gun that might as well have silly putty instead of bullets.
Why can't this fool just say he married this woman because he loves her and keep it moving? Thank God there's still some real Black men out there that are good for more than being a side piece.

Anonymous said...

Orrr he just wants someone young so he can manipulate her…especially with his wife being a runaway teen and all. She came from nothing so he will use his status and money to keep her in line. She’s happy now but when his age start physically showing, she’ll be ready for him to go on and be with the lord like Nene with Greg.

Anonymous said...

When his wife gets older, she'll understand why everything he said here is a problem. Wishing her the best though, sounds like she has a tough road ahead.

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