Last week model Anansa Sims' ex husband, David Patterson Jr., filed a lawsuit against her fiancé, retired NBA player Matt Barnes, after a spitting incident at a football game [click
here if you missed that].
Anansa, daughter of model Beverly Johnson, sets the record straight...
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Yeah, I knew there was a reason why there was no footage of the lead up to Becky spitting on him.
Regardless of the circumstances, you just don't spit on people. Matt deserves everything he's getting.
Anansa ain’t famous enough to be on anything but Snitch.
What about Matt being abusive to her kids ? Please stop with the sympathy card. Y'all are All a disgrace. It's sad that they use the kids as a tool against each other.
I believe her. Her ex is a whole jerk. If the judge slapped him with a 3 year restraining order it was for good reason. He confronted Matt cuz he wants money. If Matt was broke, he wouldn't be suing him. At this point the courts will have to handle all this foolishness before someone gets killed.
The ex-husband was controlling and manipulative. he is still trying to control her through the kids ad doesn't want her to be happy. Its really that simple, if I'm not happy, I'm going to make your life miserable. He's that type of black man.
I will just repeat what I always say about these kinds of stories. Women, know who you're procreating with.
I believe her.
What did she see in him to begin with and how does somebody turn into a monster so quick? How didn't she know what she was dealing with after having the first or even second, much less three kids with him? Nobody's innocent here. I think there's a little bit of fkd up in all of the players of this game.
I believe her. People act like this stuff doesn't happen, but it does. He had a young pretty wife, kids, and went crazy thinking that she was going to sit there and deal with it.
She found another man who is more successful than him and he can't deal with it. What was supposed to happen was she was supposed to go back to him crawling on her hands and knees.
Number 1-- Properly VET and avoid psycho a$$ men like this. There are always signs. Sometimes we ignore red flags just to have someone, or we don't recognize the signs because we are too naive. Be more aware and teach your daughters the truth about bad guys and how to avoid them.
Number 2-- If you make a mistake and form a union with this type of man, GET OUT while you still have some youth and try again.
Ladies, you CAN learn from your mistakes and move on. You don't have to remain stuck in an unhealthy situation.
And I'm not saying Matt is "Mr. Perfect" (because I don't know him or any of them), but if he and Anansa have both learned from their previous marriages and found love in one another, more power to them!
I guess the White woman left him.
@11:50 the ex probably has an undiagnosed mental illness. While I really hate that I never had kids, I'm happy to not have that connection to my ex. He's mentally ill and drinks like a fish. My mom has the bipolar bear and she drinks sometimes. Before her diagnosis, she made everyone's life a living hell.
My current dude is on meds and is okay most of the time. Sometimes it's hard to tell personality quirks from mood switches early on. Hope the kids have support outside of this mess. If it hadn't been for my grandparents, I would've been dead years ago.
I believe her.
@ 12:20
Hey, I feel you. My mom has mental health issues as well and it took getting well into my adulthood to realize how much she has crippled me, and how much her siblings did to keep her together until I was self-sufficient. Apparently she was prescribed meds, but refused to take them. TRULY love and appreciate them for surrounding me during my youth.
It's tough because Black families don't talk about mental health issues and shyt gets kicked down the road and explained away until everything blows up.
Just spoke to my aunt this morning about my mom because she's saying wild shyt and I'm almost certain the next round of issues is coming around the corner.
What I will say is that I'm much more discerning and perceptive, so I walk away at the hint of any of this shyt. It's one thing to support a loved one, but willingly tying oneself to someone with obvious issues they refuse to seek help for is a different beast.
Last dude I encountered that was clearly off realized I saw right through him and tried to turn into Mr. Nice Guy. Found out he later knocked up a Becky out of wedlock and wouldn't even attempt to form a relationship with her. Instant co-parent while dating other women.
:-O Totally dodged a bullet.
Good luck with your new partner, and I'm happy you survived the tough times!
Be well! <3
@ 2:05 yes, it's incredible that Black folks don't want to discuss mental illness in 2023. Ppl are so ready to discard folks when they're at their weakest and then shake their head when they finally off themselves.
Even though my mother has burned many bridges because of her illness, I'm still on her team because she has no one else but my grandmother.
Big ups to you for using this knowledge while dating. I'd forgotten my new dude was on meds when he took a nibble of an edible over the weekend. Seriously, I thought I was gonna have to call 911.
From the sound of things, Anansa's ex will probably have to put on a 72-hour hold before the year is out.
You be well also. Peace and Blessings.
Ten slides? Child please! I ain't got time to be reading all that shat.
@4:13PM
I hear ya. I'm loving her from a distance, but I'm hanging in there. I needed my distance for a WHILE because she had a mental break a few years ago, and I had to move heaven and earth to solve some serious problems.
She also thinks ghosts/spirits are bothering her. I know that stuff is real, but this is decades of spiritual crap. Ugh
@5:45PM LOL!
The problem with her is she too is toxic. She had 3 kids by a crazy man. So, at what point did she realize it was time to leave him though? She hopped from one toxic man to another. Looks like she met her match and can’t handle it. Beverly raised a spoiled brat. I remember her disrespect towards her mother when they had that reality show.
Her ex is like 37 and she’s 44. She put that baby cougar kitty on him and he’s been whipped ever since. She turned that young man out. Look at him. He knew she was out of his league. She’s older than him, was a plus size model back then, and pretty?! He let his ego take over once he got her like most ninjas do when they finally get a female that’s out of their league. Now he’s salty…
… But even knowing all of this, Matt is still dirty for spitting on him. Spitting is just low for me, I’d put hands, feet and head butt someone behind that nasty sh*t.
Why is this man allowed to see his kids? The way he is talking that sounds like things people say before they commit murder suicide. She needs to get full custody.
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