Back in 2004 it was revealed that music producer
Swizz Beatz had secretly fathered a child with Russian recording artist Jahna Sebastian, while still married to his first wife
Mashonda Loyal but publicly dating Grammy Award winning songwriter
Alicia Keys [click
here if you missed that].
Now Jahna is accusing Alicia of overstepping her boundaries as a stepparent...
Funny enough, found this on Oprah’s own website. This is the rule in my family. I am the only Mother to my child. I am the One raising her, who gave her life, British Citizenship, knowledge, and everything else. I am not only the biological mother, I am THE MOTHER. This will remain forever. I am the one who feeds her, is raising her, who came out through the hard times with her and for her, taught her to be a great human being and everything about life. I am the Only Mother to my daughter. No one else will be called any kind of ‘mom’ name in English, Arabic, not an ‘Umi’ or anything else in other language by her. I will not let nobody bribe her and change her by using material things against me, iPhones and other things. She will be raised as a human being, who cares for humanity and stands by the right principles. I will go far and beyond for my child as I have always done. Nicole has never called another man ‘daddy’ or any other name that means ‘father’. No man has ever tried to replace or act as a second ‘father’ to her overstepping boundaries and making decisions on behalf of her real father. My rights and standing must be respected in return the same way. In front of God, money doesn’t matter, the power and purity of the soul is what matters.
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Jahna Sebastian (@jahnasebastian) on
Dec 23, 2019 at 4:45am PST
When a child has two parents, who are well and sound, who provide everything the child needs, who’s mother does everything on a daily basis and beyond, it is not the role of anyone else to attempt to replace one of the parents, the mother or the father. It is disrespectful in regards to the mother, when the ‘stepparent’ does not even speak to the mother, yet tries to get the child to call them a name that means ‘mother’ or attempts to overwrite what the mother allows or doesn’t allow the child to do on social media for example, without the mother’s consent. On top of that to use this to manipulate the child against the mother, by attempting to overwrite what the mother considers to be the rightful thing in regards to discipline or nurturing. When a step parent is bribing a child to manipulate them knowing this is not what the mother would agree with. It is simply wrong and sickening psychological manipulation of the child against the mother. Especially, when the mother is doing everything for the child and perfectly does the job and fits the role, not only biologically and on paper, but in life and on a daily basis as a teacher, nurturer and carer.
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Jahna Sebastian (@jahnasebastian) on
Dec 23, 2019 at 8:51am PST
After sharing multiple posts about a stepparent's role in their spouse's children's lives, Jhana made it clear she was talking about Alicia Keys while engaging with followers in the comment section.
Fun Fact: Swizz Beatz' first wife Mashonda once accused Alicia of doing the same thing [click
here if you missed that].
