Last October Tamar Braxton filed for divorce from her husband / manager Vincent Herbert one month shy of their 9th anniversary [click here if you missed that].
Now the judge is telling Tamar to pull the trigger or withdraw the filing...
According to reports Tamar has been warned by the L.A. County court that her divorce is at risk of being dismissed for inactivity.
Vincent has not responded to the filing and the court is asking Tamar to prove he was served if she wants a default judgement.
Tamar is also seeking primary custody of their 4-year-old son Logan.
