On the last episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta friend of the cast Demetria McKinney found herself in an awkward situation after Kandi's girlfriend Gocha Hawkins announced that she too dated Demetria's boyfriend, producer Roger Bobb.
Demtria sets the record straight and gathers Gocha for good measure…
Demetria writes on her Bravo blog,
I went to Kandi's sexy party in an effort to get to know these ladies a bit better, relax, and enjoy a Kandi Koated Night…and 2-year-old tea gets spilled by random girl #673 hoping for a cameo?! I actually feel bad for her. You need that light so badly that you'd openly confess that your shining moment came from being on your back?! Girl! Never again admit to being a sock (Definition: Something to keep his stuff warm during the cold moment of a break up).
I have made it known that Roger and I have been in (and out) of our relationship over the span of 8 years. "Blue's Clues" happened when we were not together.
What he does when we are not together is not my concern and vice versa. The only issue I had was why this old tea was spilling on Kandi's carpet in front of all these people, most of whom I am just getting to know. I couldn't understand why this temp from 2 years ago, who claims to be in a fulfilling relationship, felt that needed to be shared in that way. But there we sat.
My reaction: There are levels to being a woman. In me, there's the Chick (cool, fun, sexy), the Lady (classy, sophisticated), and then there's that B (definition not necessary). See, the way my B is set up, once she's on deck, that's it. There's no filter, pity, or returning from that. I tried to be the Chick and the Lady that I am through that whole thing, but at that moment B knocked Chick and Lady out the way and raced to the front of my mouth! So I felt the best thing to do was graciously get up and leave. Beyonce said it best: "Of course some sh-- might go down when it's a billion dollars on an elevator."
My relationship with my mogul has them coming for me, honey! LOL! But me and that Roger Bobb, we're good!
