On the last episode of Real Housewives of Atlanta, the ladies got into a heated discussion over whether or not Porsha Stewart's husband Kordell was too controlling [click here if you missed that].
Kandi Burruss now wishes she'd kept her mouth shut, while Porsha appears to be questioning the issue internally...
Kandi writes on her Bravo Blog,
Sometimes I look back at an episode and disagree with my own self about things I may have said. This episode is one of them. I felt bad as I looked back at how we were questioning Porsha about her marriage. So let me say, Porsha, I apologize. My mom always says you’re not supposed to speak about other people’s marriage unless they ask you to. Porsha did not ask me for advice, nor should she. I am not married YET, therefore I can’t say what Porsha should or should not do. I respect the fact she stood her ground.
My situation is totally different than Porsha’s. I meant what I said about how I can’t relate to her situation, because it’s true that if you have to financially depend on your mate, then a lot of times that gives them more control. BUT that is not always a bad thing. These days divorce is at an all-time high, and I have to wonder if it’s because we as women are more independent and therefore less likely to put up with B.S. and not as willing to work through the hard times like the women from back in the day, who were more dependent on their husbands? Well, although I can’t relate to Porsha, I still wish her happiness and longevity in her marriage, and I hope she keeps doing what works for her. Maybe I need to be taking advice from her, since she is the married one.Meanwhile in a clip posted online, Porsha discusses the Vegas trip with Kordell then becomes confused by his response.
