Now that he's divorced Usher knows exactly what he's looking for in a woman and what it takes to make a relationship perfect.
Usher says,
"The small of a woman's back is sexy. There is a tenderness a woman has that could make a man fall to his knees and a strength that will tell him to be the greatest of all. For a woman to be able to dominate and also be feminine and soft, that's a talent.
And it's not all about appearance. A woman who has a brain, who is street-smart and book-smart - that woman is very, very sexy to me."
Women see things that men don't. I guess it's more important for a man to hear a woman, not just listen.
The perfect relationship is one where both parties try to understand what their mate is not just saying, but feeling too."