In a recent interview Alicia Keys talked about how lucky she's been in love and how she's never been in any bad relationships.
Alicia says,
"I've never dated a ton of people, I've always been a one-guy kind of girl, but I have to say that I've always been lucky with love, blessed with it. Overall I haven't had any terrible relationships - apart from a couple of little stupid ones when I was younger, but at that age you kinda can't help it.
"But I've always had really great guys in my life, you know? They've been very stable men as well. I need a guy who is strong-minded, not intimidated by me - I don't like those kind of guys."
I guess if you're good at or oblivious to your boyfriend's wife trash talking your relationship it would seem pretty blissful.