People around Usher are drawing comparisons between his new girlfriend, Def Jam exec Grace Miguel, and his ex-wife Tameka. First of all Grace, though estranged from her husband, is still married just like Tameka was. Grace at 42 is older than Usher, just like Tameka was and she reportedly doesn't get along with his mother, just like Tameka didn't. People say Grace and Usher's mom are butting heads because Grace has been making more and more decisions concerning Usher's career even though she works for Def Jam, which is seen as a conflict of interest because Usher's contract is with Jive.